Here’s the tape of then Lt. Mike explaining why I could not file a complaint/report against Gareth Warren, MD.

These others were follow-up, and months later. He gave me his cell phone number back in September, 2015. When I sat with him for an hour and half, making my “statement” and he documented NOTHING. Including that I ever even met with him.

April 12, 2016: I try and talk with Mike about the case. Mike blows me off.

April 12, 2016 (After 2pm):

Mike blows me off again.

July, 2016: Mike blows me off one last time.

Of course, the court clerk/judge refused to let me subpoena him. Disappointed but not surprised.

So other than Mike, I had no interaction with the Brighton Police Department, until after the civil suit was over.

Just before Christmas, December, 2016 I met with Chief Mark Henderson. I told him I had just won a civil suit against Doctor Warren. I started to play the “Mike Tapes”, but he would only listen to a little. He had “heard enough”. Now that it’s on this site he can hear it in its entirety at his leisure.

He was visibly and genuinely, all at the same time, pissed-off, embarrassed, and stupefied. He asked for a minute, and called this guy Captain Cathaldi, to come and “sit-in”. Cathaldi, I can write a page on him, maybe someday I will. All you need to know is both he and DeSain, are cut from the same cloth, live in the same rural area, and worked for the same very rural backwoods, “Cletus’s Sheriff Dept” like a great percentage of the BPD.

Mark asked if I wanted to file a formal complaint with this guy, Cathaldi, the “Head of Internal Affairs”. LOL.

With Mark Henderson, I would have. With this Yahoo? I needed to think on it.

I’m sorry Mark didn’t see my discomfort when Cathaldi walked in, or maybe he did. That’s on Mark, because he should have known better. Mark knows, from years ago, that I am intimidated by Cathaldi. If he sincerely wanted a written formal complaint from me, involving Cathaldi, was a bad move on his part.

I didn’t tape that meeting, but I should have.

Here’s the follow-up though:

January,

Okay, I totally need to learn to shut up and let others talk. I definitely have a tendency to cut people off and speak over their thoughts.

While I am at it, I admit it, I am an asshole when it comes to this crazy shit. I am so sorry Mark Henderson. But I still must tell the truth, and stand up for myself and others.

Otherwise, I am still an asshole, just one without convictions and the fortitude to “do the right thing” beyond me and my problems. I sincerely believe that would make me a cowardly asshole.

I have believe, I am no coward.

He might not believe it, but I actually like Mark Henderson. A lot. I think under different circumstances we would have been friends. I think he knows I kind of respect him too, and I like to think he kind of respects me back. But maybe I’m naive.

Yes, he’s sometimes been rude and short, and impatient too. But that’s human nature. He has never “offended” me. So, big deal. I forgive him, because he’s said, “Sorry I was rude, short or impatient.”

In return, I am sorry Mark Henderson, for ever being, “rude, short or impatient” with you. I will always wish him health, happiness, and success. And again say how much I appreciate his efforts, and seeming sincerity.

But I can make no promises I won’t hold him to his responsibilities in the future as Chief of Police. And I will probably be rude, short, and impatient, then too. And I won’t be surprised if he is the same to me.

Bill Moele, that’s another story. Mr. Glad Hands. This guy is so insincere, it makes my teeth hurt.

But even he has to realize, it’s not Bob Adams, it’s this fucking Gareth Warren.

At the end of the day, everybody knows it sucks how Gareth Warren has infected this community. Again, if it weren’t for Doctor Gareth Warren’s abysmal judgement, character, and perversions…

Maybe I wouldn’t be such an asshole.

 

 

I just am sorry that he’s in charge of all these yahoo’s and lets the town attorney and town supervisor tie his hands when he needs to do “the right thing” for himself, the victims and the town.

I see it Mark. Mark Henderson, the man, has gone above and beyond with me. More patient than I ever have been. He has tried multiple times to help me get the closure I need. Unfortunately, I am still left unconvinced. The community is no safer than before, and I remain angry. Maybe Cathaldi’s right. Maybe I do have a chip on my shoulder.

 

 

 

 

Bottom line, the vast majority of the Brighton Police Department, is completely out of touch, politically, financially, racially, orientation, gender, morally, ethically, you name it, these cowboys, (no cowgirls) are out of touch with the very vast majority of those they are sworn to protect.

Mark Henderson well knows, I have called for SOME semblance of diversity in the Police Department’s hiring practices, training, and community outreach, for years.

Tut-tut, they had a seminar, and some guy got paid to say they all completed his “diversity training”. And they could get the “diversity requirement over with”. I talked with him, he knew shit about diversity. I actually called him a “dumb dangerous mysogonist pig”. I forgot his name it was years ago. Ask Mark Henderson, he remembers him I’m sure. How much did that guy cost?

Frankly, from where I stand, with Dr. Gareth Warren’s cum in my eye, anyone of these BPD sexually-repressed, narrow-minded, homophobic, yahoo’s could be knocking at my door tonight. Some scary shit.

Thanks Mike DeSain, if it weren’t for you, I wouldn’t have needed to go to Mark Henderson, I’m sure he’ll tell you how proud he is of you, after all he just promoted you to fucking Captain! And whats this shit about you training at FBI headquarters? Three months? Wonder what you learned.

God help this town if he becomes the next Chief.

So, sorry Mike, I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again.

I AM NOT THE VILLIAN HERE. I AM THE VICTIM. IF NOT FOR PERVERT GARETH WARREN, WE WOULD NEVER HAVE MET!

And if you, Mike DeSain had simply taken a fucking statement from me, or stood up for me, or referred me to someone…blah, blah,blah.

I think you’re a dangerous asshole Mike. A bully at best. A racist homophobe at worst. Neither of them seem like good qualities in a good cop.

I wanted to give you an opportunity to own up to this, but you’re a coward.

Captain Mike DeSain, you may never take responsibility for changing the course of my life, I do not know what your motivation is in this matter. Are you corrupt? A bigot? A coward? I wish you could have been honest, and forthright about your motivations in this matter.

At the end of the day, I can not trust you. And a word to any victim, of any crime, but especially sexual assault, or anything to do with URMC, think twice about reporting it Town of Brighton Police Department.

 

 

 

He’s a Captain now, guess he can be proud of his “honesty”.

After all the lawsuit stuff, I wanted to “close the book” on this mess of my life.

But, I still could not shake the way and manner the Brighton Police treated this “situation”, and more specifically me.

In my naiveté, I was still thinking this is a one off situation. But it is not. Apparently, because of my big mouth, I am being characterized as “known to law enforcement”.

I agree, and that’s the shame of all this. If I kept my mouth shut, MAYBE I wouldn’t be afraid of their “retaliation”, for simply telling my story.

All of it, the good and the bad, I listen to these tapes now, and I really need to learn to just shut-up. Shut-up and let others talk.

I should work harder to state my points more succinctly, and stop repeating myself.

But aggressive, or crazy, or wildly off-point, not so much. Indignant yes. Acerbic, yes.

Am I justified? You decide.

 

I hear a guy who sounds in pain, that has been whipped by the system, that he is suspicious. That he is afraid, no, very afraid. I hear a guy, searching for closure, and accountability from those that have taken a sworn oath to do just that. At the very least is a guy who, going forward, is desperate to simply have trust and faith in those same very people. And not be continually harmed by them.

You think I could get the vindication I want in writing, in a public forum? Nope. That’d be an admission of wrong-doing.

Nope. it’s just more, fuck-you Bob Adams. Just not important enough, for me to admit I’m untrustworthy. Not enough at stake, when I hold the power to shut you up. Or LOCK YOU UP.

That’s maybe why I’m putting this up on the internet. Public scrutiny may offer me the unbiased protection, or some measure of it, that I will clearly not get from the Town of Brighton, the University of Rochester, or the Monroe County District Attorneys office.

I know, it sounds a little delusional and paranoid. Unless it’s true. I am worried that someone, or some entity, will arrest or sue me, or otherwise “shut me down”. Before my truth, is told.

Yep, this is scary turf I’m treading on, as a “known to law enforcement” guy. I am still telling my story, but with their own words and their own (in)actions. Nobody likes being proven wrong, especially if it’s in their own voice.

So, hopefully, the public and media can demand the justice I deserve, when the cops come knocking at my door, and my credibility is made into shit by them.

Here’s Louise Navros:

Here’s how she is in REAL life, as the coward she so clearly admits she is. Again, part of the problem, not the solution.

Monday Evening, January 16, 2017:

By the way, NO MEETINGS EVER TOOK PLACE.

Louise Navros, and I spoke again sometime at the end of January, or early February, ( I haven’t found that tape yet, if one exists I will put it up immediately). Anyway, she told me as she expected, that she “did all she could” and that not to expect anything else. She was “sorry”.

I got off the telephone. And once again I am disappointed, but not surprised.

She is no longer the “Commissioner of Public Safety”. That’s another good old boy, now.

And Chief Mark Henderson? Well, he decided “not to take the job at URMC”.

Coincidence? I wonder if I (or my tapes) had anything to do with that decision?

This is for fun:

Who’s this “outpouring of support” from?

 

 

So, after, all this is disseminated, I can not get from th